We are both so much a like. one one of us gets sad the other one does too and we are both quite about it and have a hard time talking. i think I've gotten better over the years but its still hard. I said we don't fight we just get really sad and not about anything the other has done just stress from work or just because. we have to stop that, we waste whole days being sad sacks and its so depressing. So I think we need to get out of the house and reflect than come to each other and just get it out so it isn't lingering above our heads in this small apartment.